We've all read them because almost every fic has them.
The main characters break up/argue/stop talking to each other because of a misunderstanding.
Bella sits in a bathroom stall and overhears a conversation between one of edwards exes and her friends about the wonderful night they had
Edward sees Bella hug and kiss her, obvious to everyone but him, gay friend
Edward's stalker bestfriend James, who has taken a liking to Bella, tells her that Edward is just using her for a quick lay
Someone says or does something and the other person instantly thinks the worse
In all of these scenarios, and many more, there is some huge break up scene or arguement that would have easily been avoided if the people would have done something so simple as just TALK to each other.
I see this so much in fics that I wonder how much this happens in real life. Do people really do this?
I am the kind of person that can never leave things unsettled. I need clarification on all things, I never assume. If I ever overheard or saw something that upset me, I would NEVER just immediately think the worse, especially if the person has never given me a reason to. I am going to confront whoever is involved and demand some answers, I HAVE to know what's going on. And I would NEVER, EVER believe what someone tells me about my guy without talking to him, EVER!!! Especially an ex of his.
So campers, how common is this in real life? Have any of you ever broken up with someone or had a huge fight with your S/O only to find out that it was just a misunderstanding?