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It seems like it's been forever, but truly it's been but a handful of years since I stumbled, naive and unassumingly, into this fandom. In that time I've made so wonderful friends who have become "real life" friends, "online" friends, "Facebook" friends and women who I only get the honor of conversing with on forums like this. Through all the bickering and sometimes not-so-lovely things that happen whenever you get a group of women together, I have found some people that I've come to truly treasure in my life.
I'd like to talk about one of these women now if it's okay with you. Years ago I "met" someone online named "TigerMom", not a writer, just a reader and someone I'd talk to in forums such as this one. She friended me on Facebook and there we developed a wonderful online relationship. We "chatted" frequently, discussed politics, Harry Potter, Twilight, our kids, the shitty economic situation and so many other topics. While not always agreeing we've always dealt with each other with respect and courtesy.
Nearly a month ago I was online when Siobhan (TigerMom) found out her son, 21 year old, Private Derek of the United States Army was injured while stationed in Afghanistan. He sustained life altering injuries which included multiple amputations.
Now, having a brother that I love dearly and treasure greatly as a fellow infantryman, this hit me rather hard and I spent as much time as we could online talking about this. I simply sent her a message and asked if she needed to talk. Because lets face it, when you get that call you don't necessarily want to talk but you just have to.
Since that time I've talked to her a few times and I've left her messages on her Facebook telling her to stay strong and letting her know that there are many people out there who support her.
Soibhan has a blog through the Walking with my wounded warrior website.
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/Walkingwithmywoundedwarrior/journal/1/createdAt/asc
This tells Siobhan and Dereks story down to what happened to him and the challenges they are still facing. There are many and the road will be very long to recovery.
As a mother, a friend, a fellow military family member, as a human... she honors me with her commiitment and her dedication.
This community has been wonderful to me always. As a member of this community I hope you will take the time to read her blog, send her a card or send something for Derek to thank him for his sacrifice, just stop by the blog and tell her you are thinking of her, or simply say a prayer for her and Derek.
There are no words for what this mother is going through right now, none that will adequately express the moments she's spending, sitting, crying, loving, helping her son. Any support she can get, even just emotionally through the internet is more than she has right now.
Thank you for listening.
♥ t