Im reading this fic that deals with suicide/death.
Anyway, most fics out there ( which im assuming reflect the authors opinions) see pity as a negative emotion. And i dont understand why.
I dont think this is a case of lost in translation, since english is not my mother tongue.
A close friend just lost her dad and brother on a car accident (they were 56 and 27), not only the loss, but she had to give up her dream career to try to handle her father companies etc. Its a huge mess. I pity her immensely and im also very proud of how she is dealing with everything.
I dont believe it makes you less of a person if you are pitied, it just mean you were dealt a shitty card in life.'I dont see it as a reflection of someone character.
Unless you are trying to gain something out of it, some people try to leach off others and keep using something bad that happened to them to justify it. Using the sympathy card. overusing it actually.
I do understand not wanting pity to define who you are.
How come sympathy is acceptable?
The fic that made me wonder about this is:
In Justice
Reeling from a sudden and inconceivable loss, Bella Swan struggles to make sense of it. Convinced all is not as it seems, her search for answers uncovers a far darker instability than ever anticipated.
Twilight - Rated: M - English - Drama/Hurt/Comfort - Chapters: 14 - Words: 68,422 - Reviews: 256 - Updated: 5-13-12 - Published: 1-28-12 - Bella & Edward
Well, this is an old question for me. Most of the angsty fics deal with the unwanted pity one time or another.
My official rec, she is known on twilighted and TWCS, but just recently started posting on ff. I try to rec less known fics around here:
A Friend of the Family by samekraemer
How does someone inadvertently get mixed up with organized crime and live to tell about it? Good question. Full Summary Inside AH/OOC/All EPOV/Canon Couples/Lemons/Violence not graphic /Language.
Twilight - Rated: M - English - Romance/Humor - Chapters: 23 - Words: 156,949 - Reviews: 371 - Updated: 5-2-12 - Published: 4-12-12 - Edward & Bella
Thanx.
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