I just posted the first chapter of my new story (I'm not pimping). In short: Bella is plump and it's going to be the story of her relationship with Edward. I just got these reviews:
"Im 5'4 and i am a size 14:/
Im not saying this to be mean, because I actually like this story so far...but its not fat, and I think as woman we need to not refer to that size as fat because then we put the limitations on each other.
But I do love this story and will continue to read."
"oh, look! it's another bella is the size of the average woman, therefore she must be fat fic. lemme guess...edward's going to look past the blubber and fall in love with the beauty inside? just what the fandom needs."
And I'm feeling very silly right now. I think I've put too much of myself in this story and I've offended some people. I'm 5'0 and I'm a size 14 and I do consider myself to be fat (well, at least overweight). Maybe I've just messed up the metric system. Or maybe I have severe body image issues. In any case, I feel very stupid because I did not mean to offend anyone and I just wanted to express the state of mind of someone who has to live with being plumper, that someone being me.
What do you think? Seriously? I should go ahead and change Bella's size to a 16? I should ignore? I really didn't want to be offensive, especially to that girl who thinks I called her fat... which was totally not the case.
EDIT: Moot point now. I'm pulling my story. I don't want anybody to feel judged or brought down by what I've written. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen right?
EDIT bis: I'm editing the size according to your advice so no overidentifying and the summary (who might be construed as a little offensive). But that's it. The new story will be up tomorrow. Off to bed now, it's already 02H46am here.