Yes, I am suitably ashamed of that title but it's the end of a long week, okay?
Yesterday I found this article:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-10786279
Extract to wet your appetite: More women in the developed world are choosing not to have children. So why do friends, family, colleagues and even strangers think it's OK to question their decision?
It struck a chord, but what interested me was not just the article itself but the comments people left. It seems that people have an opinion whatever you decide with regards to children.
For instance:
One of my friends just had her first baby at 24. She looks younger than that and she got quite a lot of dirty looks and comments about 'young mums'.
Another friend, also 24, just got married. She said that everybody at the wedding kept asking when they were going to start having babies.
I think this seems to be a pretty common experience - for some reason, every woman gets asked at some point in their lives (often repeatedly) what their plans are regarding children. Whatever response they give is followed by some kind of judgement.
Why?
Discuss. (The article, your opinion, your own experiences, whatever you want to contribute).
I'm not asking for your own stance on having children/not having children (unless you want to share it) because for some people this might be a sensitive subject. Mine will be in the comments.
I think we can all discuss this rationally without getting into the realms of parents-are-selfish, no-people-who-don't-have-kids-are-selfish arguments I've seen elsewhere. This is not an opportunity to sling mud :).
Approved by grownasswoman, who I think might have been drunk.