Since it's FFAF, I need people's opinions on whether I'm being unreasonable.
I've been scouting around for volunteer work for months. It's almost as hit-or-miss as getting a paid job sometimes; some of them are getting really picky about X years of experience and so on just to hand out fliers and stuff. Most act like they're doing you a huge favor by letting you work there. But this particular application for a children's shelter was just...odd.
The application was pretty standard; background check consent, ditto, since it's working directly with kids; statement of faith...well, I've seen those before for church-affiliated organizations. Whatever. It gave me a twinge, but I signed it. Then came the statement of morality.
I'm not going to post it here verbatim lest it be Googled and identify the organization, but it was basically a promise not to engage in sex outside of marriage AT ALL (and if you do and they find out, it's grounds for termination and presumably Hell, but I've already arranged for a condo and mail forwarding so that's no nevermind)...and a separate promise not to do said fornicating with the residents.
The residents, of course, being the tweenage foster kids.
I see so many things wrong here, but I just want to help the kids. I shouldn't be balking at signing this, right? And yet...I feel like by signing it, I'm basically saying that a) it's okay for them to dictate my love life that doesn't actually exist, and b) that I'm making a concession not to molest the kids even though I really want to. Why else would they even put that in there? If you have to make volunteers sign a pledge not to sleep with the kids, I think the problem is bigger than both of us. It's not the kids' fault. I just feel weird about letting it slide like there's nothing untoward about the whole thing. Would you sign it or just look for another place to volunteer?
And I also want to know for my own sick curiosity: What's the weirdest thing you were ever asked on a job/school application or during an interview?