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A woman in her 30s likes ‘Twilight’? So what?

Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 7:26 PM

Hi Campers! I haven't visited this site in so long, but I read this Dear Carolyn column in the Washington Post yesterday and it made me think of all the people I have seen post, or met in the fandom who said they are closeted about their interests in Twilight because they feared what others think. I think this clearly shows how douchey people sound when they are being judgmental about other people doing what they enjoy:

"My wife is an avid reader and enjoys a lot of different types of books. Among them are series usually geared toward teenagers, like “The Hunger Games” or “Twilight.” Before the premiere of the latest movie, she rereads the series and then goes to the midnight showing with a group of girlfriends.

I am not talking about teenagers here, or even people in their 20s. We are in our 30s and both professionals. I think my wife’s interest in these books and movies is juvenile, and I don’t really understand it. I feel mildly embarrassed that she can talk (in detail!) to my nieces about these books at holiday gatherings.

My wife thinks that her reading selection is her business only and that these books provide a nice relief from everyday problems. I can see her point, but on the other hand, I’m not sure why she can’t get the same thing from adult literature. Who is the odd one here, me or my wife?"

 Does anyone else think this woman's husband is a grade-A jerk? 

Carolyn's response  : There’s no odd, there’s just snobby with a chance of insecure. Why do you care so much about what she reads?

So true!! I hope that some of her points made in her response can be helpful to people who still feel they have to defend their obsessions hobby.  I personally just don't give a hoot what people think of my hobbies I feel like its just another thing like watching sports or any other thing people do. This guy makes me understand why some people are closeted but like I said I also think this guy is just a jerk so I would care even less what he thinks.  Do any of you still deal with people like this?  How do you handle it?  Does anyone else want to track down this man's spouse and buy her a drink for putting up with that?  

 

I haven't read a fic in months and looking back a lot of things I would rec are pulled : ( But this was one of my all time favorites that I thought was pulled but I guess since it was a collaboration It was just one of the authors who pulled it: 

Pressed for Time
Author: chele681 
Is it possible to fall in love in five minutes? "He showed me what he was reading and, accidentally, I think he may have shown me his soul" BxE Written with Twanza AH
Rated: Fiction M - English - Romance/Humor - Edward & Bella - Chapters: 17 - Words: 108,330 - Reviews: 639 - Favs: 637 - Follows: 442 - Updated: 04-16-11 - Published: 04-15-10 - Status: Complete - id: 5900052

emibella

Help Desk

Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 6:09 PM

 

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wolvesnvamps

A bit much no?

Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 10:25 AM

Kristen wouldn't get my vote for least trusted...she isn't my favorite but I distrust and dislike many before getting to her.

From celebitchy

Kristen Stewart is ‘the least trusted movie star in America,’ says Readers Digest

Sometimes I change my mind about certain dresses or strong “looks” after the first rush of judgment. I will soften and, as time passes, a look that I hated at first glance will grow on me. That’s not happening at all with this Stella McCartney onesie that Kristen Stewart wore to the Met Gala. If anything, this shiz is MORE hideous to me now than when I first covered it. Plus, I’m seeing it in different angles now and OMG DIAPER. The whole mid-section and crotch of this thing is totally FUBAR. It’s not even that Kristen is the one wearing it – it’s just an awful onesie.

Anyway, Kristen doesn’t have a whole lot going for her these days. I mean, sure, she’s still young and attractive and richer than all of us will ever know. But her career has significantly faltered and her Twihard fanbase seems to be outgrowing her as we speak. And now this – Reader’s Digest just conducted an interesting poll to determine the “least” and “most” trusted movie stars in America. Kristen is the least trusted movie star. Full stop. People distrust her more than they distrust TOM CRUISE.

According to a “100 Most Trusted People in America” nationwide poll conducted by Reader’s Digest, Kristen Stewart is the least trusted movie star in America.

Reader’s Digest compiled a list of more than 200 American opinion shapers, leaders and headline makers from 15 highly influential professions and presented it to more than 1,000 Americans (a representative sample of adults living in the United States), asking them to rank each name on how trustworthy they thought each individual was. Trustworthiness was determined by “integrity and character, exceptional talent, drive to personal excellence, internal moral compass, message, honesty and leadership.”

According to their results, Stewart received the lowest trust score (24%) amongst all of the movie stars who made the list, despite her status as one of the highest-paid stars in Hollywood.

http://www.celebitchy.com/296578/kristen_stewart_is_the_least_trusted_movie_star_in_america_says_readers_digest/

 

THOUGHTS??

shc92

The Daily Chew! 5/8

Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 7:39 AM

shc92

What the Fic?! 5/8

Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 7:36 AM

accusatrix

Where My Stories At?

Tuesday May 7, 2013 at 10:40 AM

I've been wanting to re-read a few stories and when I went back to search for them they have gone missing. Must be Tuesday!  Does anyone on here have these missing stories?

I'm looking for two stories by In love with a Crooked Smile: Cooking With Fire and If You Can't Stand The Heat. The third story I'm looking for is Cotton Creek by rtgirl.

And now comes the good part - fic recs. One for each one I'm looking for.

Grand by Carano (WIP - A/H - Edward/Bella)

A mafia tale about love, loyalty, betrayal, and family. Told in three parts: Grand Tale, Grand Vendetta, and Grand Finale. We'll begin in 1975 and follow a family through the MGM Grand fire, the Dunes implosion, and the opening of Mandalay Bay. Crime/Family

Swan's Guide To Being Single...And Staying That Way by BitterHarpy (Complete - A/H - Edward/Bella)

Bella Swan is 35, successful, rich and she knows what she doesn't want in her life: a husband and a family. Can her family introduce her to the one man who could change her mind? Rated M for strong language and the occasional lemon. Romance/Humor

Growing Up by BetterinTexas (Complete - Vamps - Peter/Bella)

Peter has one thing on his mind. Revenge against the vampire who killed his family and turned him. Prepared to finish what he started when he saved a newborn girl from death during the Southern Wars, he unexpectedly finds his Mate about to be killed by a nomad in a ballet studio. A naive girl who has a lot of growing up to do. Romance/Humor

Any help y'all could provide in finding these three missing fics, would be much appreciated! Cheers!

Edited to add: And all three have now been found. Many thanks to all the helpful wonderful campers here!

shc92

The Daily Chew! 5/7

Tuesday May 7, 2013 at 7:44 AM

shc92

What the Fic?! 5/7

Tuesday May 7, 2013 at 7:41 AM

DELETED USER

Billith Cometh

Monday May 6, 2013 at 7:22 PM

 

Thoughts? The last few seasons have been a hot mess but this looks promising. 

Of course that could be because of the song playing during the trailer (LOVE THAT SONG)

Lolita-nie-en-bloc

Fifty shades of responsability

Monday May 6, 2013 at 1:25 PM

I just read this

Philadelphia Teacher Philip Aidoo Suspended After Buying 9th Grader 'Fifty Shades Of Grey'

 

Here are the most important parts of the article. The original article is in the link.

 

"Ladson's son, a 14-year-old ninth grader at Eastern University Academy Charter School, told his mom his teacher, Philip Aidoo, bought him author E.L. James' runaway bestseller after seeing it on his reading wish list."

 "In January, a Brazilian judge even pulled them off the shelves of bookstores in the city of Macae after seeing a minor reading one"

 "Eastern University Academy teacher Aidoo apparently told school officials he did not understand what the book was about when he bought it"

 "Jeanne Sager said that as a mother, she understood why Maya Ladson would not want her teen reading "Fifty Shades" without her permission. However, she's not mad at the teacher, either : "consider this: no one forced the 14-year-old to read about bondage and ben-wa balls, He chose it. Which means he was probably going to read it anyway. The teacher just sped up the inevitable, and he actually got a kid to READ. Isn't that what we want English teachers to do? Encourage our kids to read?"

 

I know most of you are mothers : how would you react if you 14-year-old boy would come home with FSOG or another alike book? (Alike in terms of erotism and violence)

Do you consider that the most important is to encourage a kid to read, no matter what he reads? I wonder, if the teacher saw the book on a wish-list, wouldn't there be other books on the wish-list too? 

Jeanne Sager says that the teacher just sped up what was bound to happen, but wouldn't you say that a teenage boy buying his own "porn" is one thing, but have a teacher offering it as a gift... I don't know. It makes me uncomfortable.What if the gift was not innocent? Maybe it was a message? I don't know. 

What are your thoughts?

 

Glycerine
Author: Livie79 PM
Glycerine: Sweet, clear, odorless...harmless, unless mixed with the wrong ingredients. When Bella decided to fulfill a fantasy, Edward was happy to oblige. No strings, no obligations. But when their paths cross months later, a spark is ignited and the tables are turned. Will the highly combustible mixture of lust and love survive or create an explosion that will destroy them both?
Follow/FavoriteRated: Fiction M - English - Romance/Angst - Bella & Edward - Chapters: 18 - Words: 135,498 - Reviews: 3,933 - Favs: 1,794 - Follows: 2,644 - Updated: 05-05-13 - Published: 11-29-12 - id: 8748149  

Original Misfit

But can we talk about this though?!!

Monday May 6, 2013 at 9:24 AM

 

Where are my Game of Thrones peoples at?

Flailing over last night's eipsode must commence

Come on in and discuss with me plz

There may be spoilers within, proceed with caution

mrscherrybomb

Happy Monday

Monday May 6, 2013 at 7:08 AM

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Welcome to the Monday Morning Hot Guy Campfire. What better way to start your week than a hot guy?

Every Monday, I'm going to dedicate a CF to the Hot Guy of the Week. The catch? The CF can ONLY be about the current nominated guy.

We all have different tastes in men, so please don't yuck anyone's yum. If you have a man you'd like to see crowned for the week, PM or hit me up on twitter (@ffcherry) with his name.

shc92

The Daily Chew! 5/6

Monday May 6, 2013 at 6:56 AM

shc92

What the Fic?! 5/6

Monday May 6, 2013 at 6:54 AM

mo kagen

Sneak Peek !

Monday May 6, 2013 at 3:20 AM

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SouthernCharm

Juice for all!

Sunday May 5, 2013 at 5:17 PM

I hope I'm squeaking in before the FFA deadline! My family has started a new thing, and I'd love some advice.

 

Juicing. We bought a juicer, the Breville Compact Juice Fountain. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000MDHH06/ref=oh_details_o03_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

 

So far I've stuck with green juice, using kale, spinach, celery, mint, apple, and/or pears, and/or pineapple. And a carrot juice with carrots, pineapple and/or apples, and ginger.

I'm not a great recipe person, I really cook by sight, feel, and taste, and I find that I'm juicing the same way. Add a little of this, taste... add some more of that kind of thing.

 

Does anyone else here juice? What other combinations should  I try? Or, any tips that I may not be aware of?

 

Thanks bunches!

OpalescentDawn

Give it to me!

Sunday May 5, 2013 at 2:55 PM

I wanna know, what your top three 'drop everything when there is an update' fics are, s'il vous plait : )

Currently, these are mine:

Contractually Bound

Author: LyricalKris
She'd cost him everyone he'd ever loved. Surely a few months of marriage wasn't too high a price for her to pay in compensation.
 

Something True

Author: BelieveItOrNot 
With too many secrets and a haunting past she'd love to forget, at seventeen, Bella is sure love doesn't exist. College dropout Edward Cullen can't seem to keep hold of love, or his music. A cottage, a lake, a tree, a muse, wrong choices, and heartache. How will these two cope with life and keep afloat? A daily word-prompt WitFit. Alternates between past and present. AH E/B

Stolen

Author: Rochelle Allison
He stole her heart, and then he stole her father's fortune. Love and forgiveness are nice concepts, but highly improbable. Right? Drama, romance, action, and a heavy sprinkling of the good stuff.

I'm looking for something new to get myself stuck into. Give me your top three inside : D

UNKNOWNUSER

FAIL!

Sunday May 5, 2013 at 12:11 PM

Facebook, twitter and PMs fails.

 

Okay, you know how it goes.

I post some, you post some. and we all get to have a good laugh.

Get in.

UNKNOWNUSER

Another Thief.

Sunday May 5, 2013 at 9:41 AM

Plagiarism Alert.

A friend of mine told me about this :

Here's the original story that was published in 2009 on FF:

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/5528073/1/Defining-Moments.

And here's the plagiarized story link:

http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8628146/1/Unexpected-Love

Okay, guys. Lets do our magic :D

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Edit:

After a long conversation, she wrote on her AN:

Hey Guys, I got another story for you, I got the idea from the movie The Wedding Date, and from reading another fanfcition Defining Moments, by kandislen.. it's a Dawson Creek story. A really good one at that. So some of the idea's and lines came from that story. So please free feel to check it out..
 

I think my job is done. No one need to report her now .... *sigh*

Kat097

ADF Fit Club - Week 25

Saturday May 4, 2013 at 11:38 PM

Sorry I'm late - explanation inside!!

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