I just found out that a few really awesome people deleted their ADF accounts.
This pisses me the hell off.
This is a community I've been involved with since 2008, and I've never made a dime from it. In fact, if you were to calculate the virtual cost of my time based on the salaries I've had since then, I've put a helluva lot of my own money into it. Not only that, but I literally had my credit card on the servers to auto debit, keeping this place running for about a year. My investment remains HUGE, even if I disappeared while finishing grad school.
I've always blandly tolerated the people whose posts led me to dislike the poster. On the other hand, I've grown personally attached to those whose posts led me to feel a warm connection to the poster.
I've made a few lifelong friends here.
I'm outraged that childish carelessness on the part of some folks with no filter causes good peeps to leave ADF. I'm allowed to feel this outrage, and although I expect some folks to speak out against me here, I know others feel the same outrage, even if they're less concretely but just as emotionally invested in this place.
Some of you don't deserve this dressing-down, but some of you do need a reminder not to be a total douche. If you make a comment that someone takes umbrage with, in future, please try diplomacy instead of sticking to your one-sidedness at all costs. It might be a cost that I am not willing to pay.
Thank you.
EDIT: I'm actually very mellow.